Sunday, December 19, 2010

Economics of rich man marrying pretty girl (Funny..)

funny... haha.. quite true from the economics point of view since the pretty girl also view marriage from the economics point of view..



A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here.

I'm 25 this year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above.

You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York .

My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married?

I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?

Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.

If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden ( ? ) , $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I've met a few girls who don't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

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An awesome reply from CEO of J.P. Morgan:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.

My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you.

The answer is very simple, so let me explain.

Put the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty"and "money" : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.

However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason.

The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year.

Hence from the view point of economics,

I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position".

If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased".

Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you,but will not marry you.

I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me.

signed,

J.P. Morgan CEO

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The current ruling party should change name

If the current policies are the "best" for Singapore, I suggest the name of the current ruling party be changed as it is not consistent with their policies. It really a eye sore to me whenever I see a mismatch. Perhaps a name and logo change would make them more relevant in this latest stage of globalisation if they choose to continue to defend their ideology.

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Friday, December 17, 2010

Unsustainable living

Unsustainable living! Unsustainable living! Unsustainable living!
Unsustainable policies! Unsustainable policies! Unsustainable policies!

I can't believe the most expensive leaders in the world can come out with these policies and continue to defend them. Haiz...

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Future of Singapore children

To a very large extent, I agree with the article below!!! I have lost confidence in my country and with the current leaders. haiz.. How much does lip service worth?


Future of Singapore children

We are a singaporean couple in our 30s and both of us are from top universities in Australia , since graduation we gave been married for quite some time now. We do not have any children at present. For some reasons such as family commitments, relatives from a large extended family, we had to stay put in Singapore for some time.

Some years back, we had contemplated on buying our own HDB home before having children. After observing recent developments in Singapore, we decided that at some point we should just return to Australia permanently, since then we had dropped the idea of having kids. We had a discussion regarding the issue as having kids in Singapore is indeed very disastrous compared to family oriented Australia. We were asked countless times by many of our relatives on why we have no kids . It’s a pleasure and a boon to have children who bring joy to our lives. but reality eventually takes the cake . Many people proudly proclaim their family oriented approach in life but how many of them face the stresses of having to deal with high cost of living and that of the child’s when reality hits them? While the authorities encourage producing more babies, it looks like merely lip service . They do not understand that high cost of living deters many prospective child bearing couples. The incentives such as baby bonus given are lackluster and the system itself is unforgiving to children. Which couple will want a child in a system where one pays school fees that are higher than most first world countries that subsidise education for citizenary , an education system that emphasize on paper grades, unstable economy,low wages , high cost of living and a lack of a comprehensive social safety net?

These are some of the few reasons that we had identified that may hold some worth having stayed and observed education, parenting and family aspects in the Australian and and similar Canadian systems.

1) high cost of education in Singapore relative to wages. Unlike Australia which subsidizes their local students heavily , Singaporeans are paying horrendous amount of fees for tertiary education that is supposed to be subsidized.

2) quality of education . No matter what the marketing machine churns out, singapore’seducation is not that trains students to think out of the box and to solve problems. Both of us, came from Australian universities which train their students from preschool in knowledge based applications and theory, what the Singapore system does is uncreative rote learning which left many singaporeans without the global thinking skill sets required for a knowledge based economy.

Despite statistics that show the Singapore education system as being one of the world’s best, it’s people have not turned out to be Nobel laurettes. The students are bent on getting high grades than actually learning stuff useful to them in a rat race to the top or rather , ironically, to the bottom. Having been a kid myself, I never gained anything from the education system , except stress. If Australia’s education system may not be the best , according to singapore’s “standards” , the country and it’s citizens are ironically doing better with higher productivity and home grown local businesses that compete on the global stage . It’s also a known fact that international rating bodies which rank education systems are not particularly known to take a holistic approach but merely do so from a investor or meritocratic point of view.

3) difficulty in entering universities in a tightly rigid classification method that streams students in a outdated meritocratic system that judges capability with past achievements from paper grades than future critical thinking ability. It does not take into account that people mature and change differently from others at different periods in their lives as I myself, had been a slow learner in school before but had obtained a degree overseas eventually. There is no scope for a well rounded holistic education here. Just a poor imitation of old British style system unlike the Australian and Canadian models. Scandinavian systems included as well.

4) Finally in a system that is unforgiving, a child if drops out of the rat race within a time frame limit , will have his or her future in question and expected to go into a job that pays$800 a month for a living. A situation we do not have in Australia. To further add on, children are being told to study in a rigid system that does not apply to foreigners who will be competing for jobs with our child in the future when companies insult the education system here by employing cheaper foreigners from some unknown university in India or Manila. It seems stress is only for the singapore child and the companies are here to enjoy the first world infrastructure and security without the social responsibility to pay for it.

5) we do not want our children to grow up in an education system that seems to be more tailored towards creating people who want to be rewarded with capitalistic benefits detached from society rather than thinking individuals that can improve the lives of others around them . It also seems that if a Singaporean did his or her education on Australia or overseas, they can’t accept the fact that one who was rejected by a singapore university has gained admission in overseas first world universities by a whole lot of discriminating local Uni grads that think too highly of themselves compared to people who have graduated from 100 year old overseas universities with a wealth of knowledge rooted in history and culture . It’s obvious that if one has been doing something for 100 years, they are pretty good at it. Besides that point, local unis will not be where they are without the template provided by the western education system and it’s state universities .

6) if it’s a male child , it’s obvious that he will be at a disadvantage due to NS liabilities. NS is for a good cause but it does not compensate a male for the sacrifices in terms of job opportunities or housing.

7) due to longer working hours eating up in valuable family time, today’s parents are vastly different to that of yesteryears , they do not have the time to spend with their kids who tend to be lonely and mix with bad company. In a first world country with a third world work structure that does not allow for work , life balance it’s expected that there will be moreproblems in teen delinquency, school dropout rate. The same situation can be found inAustralia but due to other different reasons as well. The Aussie kids do not have to worry about social security, job opportunities dropping out of the rat race or low wages.

We are unsure where Singapore is headed in the future, despite assurances that “singaporeans come first” , judging from past promises , we do not have confidence in the future and the system for us, especially for our child, if we were to have one, .In the future, there is no gurantee that we can send our own children like ourselves for overseas studies at the rate cost of living is escalating in Singapore . Till we see a system that takes the local society’s well being into consideration , we just want to end our generation here. We do not want another generation to suffer , worst of all, more than we did. As the Australians put it , we do not want our child to be in a system that is made by ”obligatories” that rely on the servtitude of others but yet provide a unfair playing ground .We shall be back in Australia to start a family. We want our children to be like the free children of Australia as children they meant to be, free and easy.

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Local couple

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Monday, December 06, 2010

Very disappointed with Singaporeans

Very the disappointed with Singaporeans. Compete talent, no talent. Compete sport, no talent in sport. Compete academic, even lose to PRC. Compete with whatever things, we are nothing yet our leaders keep boasting we are world class country. Really a tragedy of our own system. Maybe Singaporeans good at wayang. Sometimes, I secretly feel ashame to be Singaporean :p

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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Something that I am grateful to our government

I thank the government for bringing the whole world in front of my footstep so that I can see the world without crossing borders and learn from them what is lacking of us.

I thank the government for bringing the whole world in front of my footstep so that by their presence, we know what our weaknesses are as our weaknesses are magnified.

I thank the government for bringing the whole world in front of my footstep so that with their presence, our system weaknesses are exposed and exploited, and that our leaders know what to correct.

I thank the government for bringing the whole world in front of my footstep so that in the midst of their presence, we heard feedback regarding our social and political flaws/issues which most native Singaporeans are either lazy to find out or indifference about it.

Without them, I would still be the ignorance Singaporean I used to be.

Those are my true experiences. But in the process, I have made many (good) friends as well. They are quite nice and interesting, and I hope to keep in touch with them for as long as possible.

I sincerely thank the government for all they have done for Singaporeans. 用心良苦。

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21世纪社会走向与危机 (唐崇荣牧师)- Q&A


Part 1:
http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/TBNAfRQGRss/

Part 2:
http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/7rqwTL48uS4/

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Saturday, November 27, 2010

康德说 。。

1. 康德说证明上帝的存在很难很难,但是证明上帝不存在更难更难。。


2. 康德年老的时候写了一封信给他最好的同学:“其实我这一生只要明白的事只有四样 - 1)我是谁 2)我可以知什么东西 3)我应当做什么 4)我做人有什么盼望”

蛮有趣的问题。。



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耶稣是谁(唐崇荣牧师)- Q&A

One of his rallies (Q&A) on 耶稣是谁. Not sure which location it is. Does not look like in Singapore.

http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/BFkkvWe_Cpo/isRenhe=1

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Sunday, November 21, 2010

The pragmatic mandarin

This guy should continue to guide and lead Singapore! The current group of leaders (not all though) are pathetic. The current system (including education system) has gone very wrong. Very wrong.. training people with pathetic mindset.. I am very disappointed! Very disappointed. How I wish I am in the "ignorance" group like what MM had rebuked Singaporeans.. Reform must come to Singapore, though not drastic ones but more of a progressive. Without the rights to scrutinize policies, the future of Singapore, I afraid, will be bleak. The "high" tension situation in Singapore has inevitably pushed more potential and highly intellectual Singaporeans to voice out. Indeed, the next few decades of Singapore, I believe, will see reform coming, if and only if the citizens are not sleeping now.



Published November 20, 2010

The pragmatic mandarin

Arguably the most outspoken of Singapore's policymakers, Ngiam Tong Dow is also among the most experienced, with a panoramic perspective that is informed by an acute sense of history and political reality.By Vikram Khanna

'STRATEGIC pragmatism, that is my song,' declares Ngiam Tong Dow, in the course of our two-hour conversation amid the lunchtime hubbub and clatter of porcelain at a Chinese restaurant in the Singapore Island Country Club.

Many of his favourite quotes and sayings are pointedly practical: Give a man a fish and you will feed him for a day, teach him to fish and you will feed him all his life. Forget about cutting edge research; what we need above all is competence. And this one from Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew, when he was still a young prime minister and Singapore was poor: Give a man a job and help him buy a house, and he won't riot any more.

Arguably the most outspoken of Singapore's policymakers, Mr Ngiam is also among the most experienced. During his 40 years in the civil service, from which he retired in 1999, he has served as Permanent Secretary in four ministries, in addition to the Prime Minister's Office. He has also been chairman of the Economic Development Board, DBS Bank, Housing Development Board and the Central Provident Fund Board. He has dealt with at least two generations of civil servants, ministers, CEOs and external advisers. His view of policymaking in Singapore is panoramic, informed by an acute sense of history and political reality, an instinctive feel for what will work and what will not.

After his retirement from the civil service, Mr Ngiam, now 73, has been doing the rounds of the lecture circuit, sharing his views on policy as few retired civil servants in Singapore have ventured to do. He has earned a reputation for candour, challenging many of the government's policies. Some people ask why he didn't speak up while he was in office the way he is speaking now. Mr Ngiam claims he did, but as a civil servant, he was careful to keep his views within the government.

But many of those views are now public knowledge and are about to be disseminated more widely. His speeches have been collected in a book, entitled The Dynamics of the Singapore Success Story, which was launched yesterday.

'Allowing people to buy shares with their CPF money is like sending lambs to the slaughterhouse.
The average CPF member is not stock market savvy... CPF is already used for housing loans and medical care. I don't see why it should also be used for stocks. It's unconscionable.'

'I would like to describe my book as a study in political economy,' he says. 'Political economy is one part politics and two parts economics.'

Singapore's political economy is his forte. Few can tell the story of its transformation as he can, from the days of high unemployment, slums and tin-shed factories when he started his career - to a modern high-tech economy with a first-world per capita income when he finished.

'In the early days we had no money. We had to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps,' he reflects. 'If we had thought about all the factors against us succeeding, we would not have started. There is a Chinese saying: 'The blind do not fear a tiger.' We were blind, so we didn't fear the tiger.'

But Singapore's economic strategy went through a trial and error process, he explains. 'We first tried to establish a common market with Malaysia. But that didn't take off.

'So when separation came, Finance Minister Goh Keng Swee said, forget about the Malaysian common market; we must compete with the world. It was an epochal decision. He didn't use the term globalisation - we didn't think of that word. But that was what we were doing: Singapore was the first global economy.

'The whole idea was to create jobs as fast as possible. In those early days, we didn't care a damn whether something was high tech or low tech, so long as it provided jobs.'

On the advice of Albert Winsemius, a Dutch UN official who prepared a blueprint for industrial policy in 1961, Singapore welcomed multinational corporations (MNCs). In doing so, it went against the mainstream view among economists at the time, which held that MNCs exploited countries for their own benefit. But Mr Ngiam points out that Dr Winsemius was proved right: MNCs provided jobs, access to markets and technology and did not stifle the growth of domestic industry. 'All they wanted from the host country was political stability and a hard working, educated population. They even joined us in providing training. So, we practised a knowledge based economy from the word go. We constantly upgraded ourselves.'

Singapore was conscious that it needed to set up its own industries and develop the skills to run them. Mr. Ngiam recalls: 'One day Winsemius said to me: 'Ngiam, you know, I can only be your adviser. I can teach you how to drive a car. I can even teach you how to repair a car. But you have to drive the car yourself.' Then he sat back, smiled and said: 'So that, if you crash the car, you have the satisfaction of doing it yourself.'

Remembering Dr Goh

For about 30 years, Mr Ngiam worked closely with Dr Goh, of whom he has fond memories. As he orders lunch, he remembers how frugal Singapore's first finance minister could be:

'Fullerton building had a canteen and sometimes, Dr Goh would invite Sim Kee Boon (the late former chairman of Keppel Corp) and me to lunch. He would order some taugeh, some fish and soup. The whole bill would come to about $2. And then he would ask us, 'Enough right?' How could we junior officers say, no sir, not enough! I can never forget Dr Goh's economy lunches.'

Dr Goh was also a believer in another of Mr Ngiam's favourite sayings - a quote from the Chinese leader Deng Xiaoping: 'Seek truth from facts.'

'Dr Goh always did that,' says Mr Ngiam. 'I remember, he used to write his own budget speeches on Sunday mornings. Then he would send me the drafts and say, check the facts.

If I said, 'This figure is not correct,' he would say: 'Then change the conclusion; if the facts don't support the conclusion, change the conclusion.'

In the 1960s and 1970s, Singapore went into shipbuilding and shiprepair and several defence-related companies - the forerunners of ST Aerospace and ST Engineering - as well as Singapore Airlines.

While he agrees that these companies were necessary, Mr Ngiam is not generally in favour of targeting industries, as was sometimes done, as with, for example, semiconductors and biotech. 'Let the MNCs take the big bets,' he says. 'Our big bet should be on people, on education. If we try to do cutting-edge science, we can never beat the west or the Chinese and Indians, because we don't have the talent base. So our policy should be to raise competence levels. That's why I supported Philip Yeo when he said he wants to train 1,000 PhDs.'

But on Singapore's thrust into the biotech industry, he is circumspect. 'When we make such investments, we must ask, what comparative advantage do we have? If we do not have a comparative advantage, we should not go into it.

'We should train engineers who can do research for big companies. It's the same MNC-centric strategy, but at a higher level. In the early days we trained our people to become machinists. Today, if we want big pharma to come in, we should train the chemists and PhDs to be able to work for big pharma.'

On creativity, Mr Ngiam likes to differentiate between 'thinking in the box' and 'thinking outside the box'.

'I tell this story,' he says. 'When a Chinese boy goes home after school, his mother asks him: 'What did you learn from your teacher today?' But when a Jewish American boy goes home after school, his mother asks: 'How many questions did you ask your teacher today?'

'Which boy do you think will grow up to be more creative? I think, in the contest for intellectual hegemony, the Americans will win. Because the Chinese think within the box. The Americans are more open, they are encouraged to think outside the box.'

Although Mr Ngiam favours meritocracy, he believes that Singapore companies should be run by local CEOs. 'We must have our own people,' he says. 'Because unless you're a Singaporean you will not have the emotional attachment. You can be very competent, but if you don't feel for Singapore, I don't think you can grow a Singapore company.

'But someone like David Conner the CEO of OCBC Bank, he's been here so many years that I would regard him as a Singaporean even if he had American citizenship. So by Singaporean in this context, I mean more the mentality than the colour of the passport.'

Mr Ngiam takes issue with some aspects of Singapore's immigration policy. He explains: 'We increased the size of our population by one million people in 10 years. It's true that in the 1970s, we had a shortage of labour and we did tell the government we need to increase our population which was 3.5 million. At that time, it would have been the right policy to increase the numbers. But today, it's no longer a question of numbers, it's a question of technology. Thirty years ago, $1 million of output could be produced by 100 people. But today, it can be produced by 50 people, because the technology has changed. So numbers of people are not so important anymore.'

What matters is the quality of immigrants, he points out.

'If I was in charge of population policy, I would have said: every immigrant that we take in, his or her education level must be above our average. Our average is O levels. So the people we take must be above O level, then they can value-add. If they are below O level, they would be negative value-adders. I find it odd that people from China have come and taken over our hawker centres. What's the value-add there?'

He acknowledges that Singapore faces chronic labour shortages, but suggests that this is because employers 'take the easy way out'.

Skilling up

'The only way for us to grow is to skill up - we must raise our productivity, which we have neglected for 30 years,' he explains. 'If we had been tough and told building contractors, we are not going to allow so many construction workers, they would have automated long ago. But even today they are not doing it. Look at a Japanese construction site, and see how many fewer people they use than our contractors.'

Skilling up is also his prescription to raise wage levels and to narrow the income gap. He opposes the idea of a minimum wage. 'That is namby-pamby thinking,' he says. 'You get higher wages by improving skills, not by legislating. We need to take skills training much more seriously. A lot of the short courses offered these days by professional firms are like wine tasting. They are not real training.'

The Chinese take training very seriously, he points out. 'I teach Chinese mayors at NTU. You know, under the Chinese system, if you want to get promoted, you must go overseas, not for a short course; you must get a degree. Without their degrees, my NTU students won't be promoted.'

While remorselessly pragmatic and generally pro-market, Mr Ngiam favours government intervention to help the poor.

'About 10 per cent of people need to be helped and here, the state should intervene,' he says. 'My wife is a teacher. She had students who used to go to school without any breakfast. How do you expect them to do as well as other students? We should use old school buildings to run hostels for these children. They should live there Mondays to Fridays. Meals should be provided and they can go to different schools. It's worth our investing in this. We could help 10 per cent of our students, which would run into the thousands, and the cost would not be that high.'

The state should pay for this, he adds, 'because those in the social sector who try to help others should not be in the business of fundraising. That is not their job; their job is to show kindness to people.'

There are two areas where Mr Ngiam is emphatically critical of policies because he believes they do not serve the average citizen. One is the CPF Investment Scheme, under which account holders are permitted to use their CPF to buy shares. 'Allowing people to buy shares with their CPF money is like sending lambs to the slaughterhouse,' he says.

'The average CPF member is not stock market savvy. When I was CPF chairman, I said, my duty is to the members. CPF is already used for housing loans and medical care. I don't see why it should also be used for stocks. It's unconscionable.' But Mr Ngiam was overruled, because, he says, 'one of the KPIs of MAS was to promote Singapore as a financial centre'.

The other policy of which Mr Ngiam has been a long-time critic is the move to allow integrated resorts (IRs) that include casinos. 'By going in for IRs, Singapore has taken the low road,' he says. 'Casinos undermine our moral fibre.'

He does not believe the gaming industry has fundamentally changed from the 1960s, when Singapore shunned it. 'It's the same. It only has more lights and glitter.'

Nor is he impressed by the argument that the IRs will create 30,000 jobs. 'Such jobs don't have much of a multiplier effect,' he suggests. 'It's different from creating 30,000 jobs in rig building or pharmaceuticals.'

Whether they agree with him or not - and people sometimes do not - nobody denies that Mr Ngiam has always had Singapore's best interests at heart when crafting policy; his pragmatism has been not only strategic, as he likes to say, but also compassionate.

As a policymaker, he has shepherded the Singapore economy through its transition from third world to first. I ask him what should come next, after material prosperity.

'We should become a highly educated society and keep adding to our knowledge,' he says. 'We should also be a humane society where people have respect for each other. Then we can survive. That's the Singapore I would want for my grandchildren.'

vikram@sph.com.sg

NGIAM TONG DOW

Born Singapore, 1937

Education

  • 1959 BA (Hons) (First Class) in Economics, University of Malaya (Singapore)
  • 1964 Master of Public Administration, Harvard University

    Career

  • 1959 Joined civil service
  • Served as Permanent Secretary, Ministries of Finance (1972-79),
    Trade and Industry (1979-86),
    National Development (1987-89)
    and Prime Minister's Office (1979-94)

  • Chairman, Economic Development Board (1975-81),
    Sheng-Li Holdings (1981-91),
    DBS Bank (1990-98),
    Central Provident Fund Board (1998-2001),
    Housing and Development Board (1998-2003)

  • 2003-2008: Chairman, Surbana Corporation

    National Day Awards

  • 1971 Public Administration Medal (Gold)
  • 1978 Meritorious Service Medal
  • 1999 Distinguished Service Order
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    Thursday, November 18, 2010

    Something I would like to study further...

    Sometimes I would come across people writing or saying that isn't your god as evil as hitler, for example? Why would a loving god tells jews to go kill people.. etc.. I would find it disturbing sometimes.... Well, I have read the answer to it, and sort of know the why but find it hard to be engaged in such question. I would like to find time to do more research and study on this topics .. as the old testament is harder to comprehend, so it really need more time and effort to go about digging further... Anyway, I put some link below to motivate me to do further study whenever I can find time...

    http://www.godandscience.org/apologetics/killergod.html

    http://www.rationalchristianity.net/genocide.html

    May God give me the wisdom to understand to enable me to be engaged in such conversation should there be in future..

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    Monday, October 18, 2010

    Wednesday, October 13, 2010

    Lead me Lord; guide me Lord, in my life's journey

    Dear friends and visitors,

    Please pray for Jeremy that God would plant signboards along his life's journey on various matters and Jeremy is attentive to it and heed His Way which is always the best outcome. The various matters are:

    1) Career path. Jeremy is in the midst of changing career and may God give a clear sign to Jeremy what is best for him according to his strength and weakness and personality. May God give Jeremy the wisdom to select the right path.

    2) Job opportunity. As the economy recovery is still not clear yet, may God lead Jeremy to the right job available in the job market.

    3) Right life partner. May God create opportunity for Jeremy to meet his future partner and may God help Jeremy overcome the obstacles that he may be facing. Shyness? Not articulate in expression? Not boring? Humorous? Boldness? Financial ability? etc ... which God so knows very well... Jeremy knows very well that there won't be any marriage in the next world / after life and he wishes to be committed in a marriage, which God has arranged for human from the beginning, during his lifetime.

    4) To be more active in God's work. May God help Jeremy to leave his comfort zone and come out and serve Him.

    5) To find more time to study God's word so that Jeremy can be rooted in His word and his faith will not shatter as we are fast (probably) approaching to a time when the devil will seem to triumph and Christianity further weaken in strength, power and influence globally, leading to the final removal of the Holy Spirit to restrain any evil scheme in the world during the final stages of the end times.



    ~ "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose." ~


    In Jesus' name
    Amen


    (After typing the prayer list out, Jeremy found out that he had put God's stuff at the last few point and his stuffs at the top. Jeremy remembered that we must first seek His kingdom and all others will be given to us. May God forgive Jeremy.)

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    Thursday, September 23, 2010

    Marry for Money: Strange Ways To Make Money

    Interesting Article... haha


    Marry for Money: Strange Ways To Make Money

    By Jennifer Derrick, September 15th, 2010 | 3 Comments »

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    If you want to save or have a lot of money, you may have to choose your mate carefully.

    While love is fine and even great, there are plenty of people who enter into marriage in the full knowledge of exactly how it will help (or hurt) them financially. While it may sound cold, it’s no colder than the person who marries because their partner looks good on their arm, or the person who marries because their partner can lift their social status.

    I don’t think I, personally, could marry only for money. I need love in my life to keep me happy. But some people do just fine with someone they like or can be friends with, even if they don’t love them. Others don’t even need friendship. As long as the money rolls in they can be happy. (Watch a few episodes of “The Real Housewives.” Few of them, in my opinion, look like they are in love, but they sure are happy about having money to blow.) Some people use money as the first or only criteria for choosing a mate.

    There are four ways you can marry for money:

    Marry someone with money: (Or marry someone who will inherit a lot of money.) This is the most effective, if not the easiest. If you marry someone who already has a lot of money, you know you’re set. The money is already there. If you marry someone who stands to inherit a lot, you’re taking more risk. Wills can be changed or inheritances blown before the giver dies. However, if there is a big family fortune or business, your odds are better. Finding “sugar daddies” or “sugar mamas” isn’t easy. If you’re not already a member of the wealthy social set, you have to find a way to meet the rich people. Fortunately, there are online dating sites like SeekingArrangement that can match those wanting a wealthy partner with the right people.

    Marry someone who is already good with money: You might choose to marry someone who, while not wealthy today, is very good with money. Even if your prospective mate isn’t earning a fortune, if he or she is managing what they have well then they might be a keeper. If the person isn’t in debt, knows how to budget, has some frugal tendencies, and is setting aside large amounts for the future, you may find yourself financially well off in just a few years.

    Marry someone who can fix things: Even if your partner doesn’t earn a huge income, if they can fix or build things you can save up a large fortune over the years. If your partner can fix cars, repair the house, or build furniture, you can save enough money to create a large nest egg. Don’t underestimate your partners’ skills when thinking about how much money they bring to the table.

    Marry someone who has the potential to earn a lot: Maybe your potential mate isn’t earning a fortune today, but does he or she have the potential to do so? Are they in medical or law school? Do they have some rare talent or ability that can earn them millions? Do they stand to inherit a high-performing family business? A partner that will earn a lot later in life is a potential keeper in the marry for money stakes. These people are easier to find because a lot of people that are looking for money now pass them by, not content to wait for them to “earn out.”

    If you can find a combination of these things, for example someone with money who also knows how to fix things, you can double your savings. You’ll not only have a lot of money to start with, but you’ll also keep more of that money since you won’t have to spend it on home repair.

    Even if you don’t want to “marry for money,” per se, it can’t hurt to give some thought to your partners’ money skills. A marriage is generally happier when there is no money stress and both partners are on the same page financially. It can’t hurt to choose someone who isn’t a big spender without the resources to back it up. If you can find someone who has skills, is good with money, or is frugal, that can be just as good as finding a sugar daddy.

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    Sunday, September 12, 2010

    Surviving as an introvert in an extrovert's world

    To some extent we are all a little bit of an extrovert and a whole lot of an introvert, if we are labeled as introverted. Turn that around and we extroverts have some small portion of the introvert in us, else why would we so admire the quiet bookish ones among us.

    The terms are old hat, however. Psychologists have now come up with various labels that describe behavior that labels the outward bound as extroverts and the inward looking as introverts. What they are subject to change as new studies and new information is made known. It really doesn't matter, however, most people are programmed from birth to lean toward one or the other. Environmental influences may tilt the scale slightly toward one or the other, but these are minimal.

    Yet, the question is how do the two groups live together harmoniously; or words to that effect. It is asked from the standpoint of the introverts, those preferring to lead a quiet low key life as opposed to their loud mouth sisters

    The introvert must decide how much show and tell she can take and when she's had enough of the outside world, it is her choice to out and sit alone at home while the parade of hoopla passes her by. If she is content doing that, who can argue? Only she can answer that for herself and it may be a startling discover to the world that inside most the introverts there are extrovert cravings.

    Sitting at home and moping and refusing to get involved may not be what it is cooked up to be. Being quiet and reflective by nature is one thing, but sitting home alone out of shyness or an inborn fear of the crowds is another. It would be healthier to enjoy the best of both worlds and not allow it to become stressful, but that seldom is the way personalities work. If it were not so, then there would be no need for psychologist to help them figure out the best way to go.

    Introverts sometimes are too near perfect, or wish to be. If they cannot write the best poem that is flawless they will not write one at all. Extraverts simply go ahead an write what first comes into their minds and that's that. Their perfectionist tendencies manifest themselves in being the better presenters. How their actions appear to others, as opposed to what others will know of their thoughts. Neither should fret, however, but be the best they can be, and no worry or fret over psychological labeling.

    Fear, in both cause problems when it enters into their personality trait of being outgoing or inward looking. One is afraid others will find out about their boisterous nature and they won't open the door to their inner creativity; the other has opened that door and fear what they learn.

    How then does an introvert live in an extrovert's world. You pay them rent. You work for them and earn the good salaries they can afford and you fill in for them in the area that is just beyond their capacities. The two of you were meant to be together. Your loud and boisterous sister or brother or husband fill a need you have. With association a little of them rub off on you, and because of your insistence on time out and quiet time, you subdue them.

    Just think how boring life would be without the other. It is unthinkable. The two ideally make good companions, they fill in the vacancies of the other. Therefore fret not, introverts, you are the listeners the world needs.

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    An Atheist Professor in conversation with his student

    Saw and heard this many times. Post just for the benefit of others..


    An Atheist Professor of Philosophy was speaking to his class on the Problem Science has with GOD, the ALMIGHTY. He asked one of his New Christian Students to stand and…

    Professor: You are a Christian, aren’t you, son?
    Student: Yes, sir.
    Professor: So, you Believe in GOD?
    Student: Absolutely, sir.
    Professor: Is GOD Good?
    Student: Sure.
    Professor: Is GOD ALL-POWERFUL?
    Student: Yes.
    Professor: My Brother died of Cancer even though he Prayed to GOD to Heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But GOD didn’t. How is this GOD good then? Hmm?

    (Student was silent)

    Professor: You can’t answer, can you? Let’s start again, Young Fella. Is GOD Good?
    Student: Yes.
    Professor: Is Satan good?
    Student: No.
    Professor: Where does Satan come from?
    Student: From… GOD…
    Professor: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this World?
    Student: Yes.
    Professor: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it? And GOD did make everything. Correct?
    Student: Yes.
    Professor: So who created evil?

    (Student did not answer)

    Professor: Is there Sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the World, don’t they?
    Student: Yes, sir.
    Professor: So, who Created them?

    (Student ha d no answer)

    Professor: Science says you have 5 Senses you use to Identify and Observe the World around you. Tell me, son… Have you ever Seen GOD?
    Student: No, sir.
    Professor: Tell us if you have ever Heard your GOD?
    Student: No, sir.
    Professor: Have you ever Felt your GOD, Tasted your GOD, Smelt your GOD? Have you ever had any Sensory Perception of GOD for that matter?
    Student: No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t.
    Professor: Yet you still Believe in HIM?
    Student: Yes.
    Professor: According to Empirical, Testable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says your GOD doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son?
    Student: Nothing. I only have my Faith.
    Professor: Yes, Faith. And that is the Problem Science has.

    Student: Professor, is there such a thing as Heat?
    Professor: Yes.
    Student: And is there such a thing as Cold?
    Professor: Yes.
    Student: No, sir. There isn’t.

    (The Lecture Theatre became very quiet with this turn of events)

    Student: Sir, you can have Lots of Heat, even More Heat, Superheat, Mega Heat, White Heat, a Little Heat or No Heat. But we don’t have anything called Cold. We can hit 458 Degrees below Zero which is No Heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as Cold. Cold is only a Word we use to describe the Absence of Heat. We cannot Measure Cold. Heat is Energy. Cold is Not the Opposite of Heat, sir, just the Absence of it.

    (There was Pin-Drop Silence in the Lecture Theatre)

    Student: What about Darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as Darkness?
    Professor: Yes. What is Night if there isn’t Darkness?
    Student: You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the Absence of Something. You can have Low Light, Normal Light, Bright Light, Flashing Light… But if you have No Light constantly, you have nothing and its called Darkness, isn’t it? In reality, Darkness isn’t. If it is, were you would be able to make Darkness Darker, wouldn’t you?
    Professor: So what is the point you are making, Young Man?
    Student: Sir, my point is your Philosophical Premise is flawed.
    Professor: Flawed? Can you explain how?
    Student: Sir, you are working on the Premise of Duality. You argue there is Life and then there is Death, a Good GOD and a Bad GOD. You are viewing the Concept of GOD as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, Science can’t even explain a Thought. It uses Electricity and Magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view Death as the Opposite of Life is to be ignorant of the fact that Death cannot exist as a Substantive Thing. Death is Not the Opposite of Life, just the Absence of it. Now tell me, Professor, do you teach your Students that they evolved from a Monkey?
    Professor: If you are referring to the Natural Evolutionary Process, yes, of course, I do.
    Student: Have you ever observed Evolution with your own eyes, sir?

    (The Professor shook his head with a Smile, beginning to realize where the Argument was going)

    Student: Since no one has ever observed the Process of Evolution at work and Cannot even prove that this Process is an On-Going Endeavor. Are you not teaching your Opinion, sir? Are you not a Scientist but a Preacher?

    (The Class was in Uproar)

    Student: Is there anyone in the Class who has ever seen the Professor’s Brain?

    (The Class broke out into Laughter)

    Student: Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s Brain, Felt it, touched or Smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the Established Rules of Empirical, Stable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says that You have No Brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then Trust your Lectures, sir?

    (The Room was Silent. The Professor stared at the Student, his face unfathomable)

    Professor: I guess you’ll have to take them on Faith, son.
    Student: That is it sir… Exactly! The Link between Man & GOD is FAITH. That is all that Keeps Things Alive and Moving.

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    Saturday, September 11, 2010

    WHY GIRLS SHOULD MARRY AN ENGINEER

    Interesting stuff but does not apply to everyone.. lol


    WHY GIRLS SHOULD MARRY AN ENGINEER


    Why you should marry an Engineer Let me tell you why girls should eventually marry an engineer over a Law, Management, Arts or Medical School Graduate. He has three distinct advantages over the rest of the graduates.

     

    Advantage 1: Secure lifestyle

     

    An engineer boyfriend can provide you with a secure lifestyle. At 27 years old, an engineer probably has a respectable, stable job that gives him a high income to own a car, invest, have a comfortable life, and get married and buy a house too.

     

    Law graduates are still working as a lowly apprentice in law firm.

     

    Most management graduates have just failed on their first business plan.

     

    The arts graduate is still looking for a job.

     

    And the medical school graduate is still living in a hospital.

     

    Advantage 2: Unmatchable industriousness

     

    An engineer boyfriend will dedicate an unimaginable amount of his time and effort to understand you. Engineers strain really really hard to understand their work. You can believe that they will try really really hard to understand women too, just like how they understand their work, once they believe that you are the one. So even if they don't understand you initially, they will keep on trying. Even if they still do not understand, they will figure out the correct method to keep you happy (e.g. buy diamond ring = 1 week's worth of happiness.) And once they find out the secret formula, they will just keep on repeating it so that the desired results appear.

     

    Unlike the Lawyer who will argue with you.

     

    The Management graduate who will try to control your spending, The Arts graduate who will 'change major'.

     

    And the medical school graduate who will operate on you.

     

    And you know what, it's really so easy to make engineer s believe that You are the 'one'. Say that you like one of their project and they will be hooked to you forever.

     

    Advantage 3: An engineer boyfriend will never betray your trust.

     

    Let me first tell you what is wrong with the rest of the others - The lawyers will lie about everything.

     

    Management graduates will cheat your money.

     

    The arts graduate will flirt, and you probably just look like another cadaver to the medical school graduate.

     

    Your engineer boyfriend is either too busy to have an affair, and even if he does, he is too dumb to lie to you about that. Hence, an engineer is the most secure boyfriend that you will ever find - rich enough, will keep on trying to understand and please you, has no time for affairs, and too dumb to lie to you. plus they r cooler than the others 

     

    source: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/515360.aspx

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    Friday, September 10, 2010

    RSA Animate - Drive: The surprising truth about what motivates us

    This is the change I'm looking forward to! hahah


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    Thursday, September 09, 2010

    Tuesday, September 07, 2010

    Positive Attitude can get you anything you want?


    Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice

    Son: "I will choose my own bride!"

    Father: "But the girl is Bill Gates's daughter."

    Son: "Well, in that case...ok"


    Next Day Father approaches Bill Gates.

    Father: "I have a husband for your daughter."

    Bill Gates: "But my daughter is too young to marry!"

    Father: "But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank."

    Bill Gates: "Ah, in that case...ok"


    Finally Father goes to see the president of the World Bank.

    Father: "I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president. "

    President: "But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!"

    Father: "But this young man is Bill Gates's son-in-law."

    President: "Ah, in that case...ok"


    This is how business is done!!


    Moral: Even If you have nothing, You can get Anything.. But your attitude should be +ve...


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    I am wondering if this is as good as telling lies? hmm...

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